No Resolutions Could Be Best New Year's Resolutions
This year the top 10 No Year's resolutions may be the best New Year's resolutions for women who want better physical and emotional well-being.
Whether it's making promises to lose weight or to exercise more, resolutions have long been a traditional aspect of ringing in the New Year. For most, health and appearance can be at the top of the list in a relentless pursuit of thinness - a quest that all too often results in low self-esteem, body-image disturbances or an eating disorder.
This year the top 10 "No" Year's resolutions may be the best "New" Year's resolutions for women who want better physical and emotional well-being. Experts at The Renfrew Center of Philadelphia, the nation's leading organization for the treatment of eating disorders, suggest the following 10 "No" Year's resolutions women can follow to achieve a healthier way of thinking about themselves and their bodies in 2005.
NO! I won't tell myself, "If only I were thin, I would be happy."
NO! I won't define my sense of self by the way my body looks.
NO! I won't use food as a reward or diet to punish myself.
NO! I won't allow my daily mood to be determined by the number on my
scale.
NO! I won't minimize my own achievement by comparing myself to an
unattainable ideal.
NO! I won't push myself too hard by over-exercising.
NO! I won't force my body to conform to something that does not feel
realistic to me.
NO! I won't pass up an opportunity to help make the world more
accepting of all body types.
NO! I won't pass on food or body concerns to my children.
NO! I won't lose the importance of caring for myself on a daily basis.
"Many women obsess over body size and weight and develop distorted body images partly as a reflection of low self-esteem," says Adrienne Ressler, CSW, national training director for The Renfrew Centers.